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She lives with her husband’s family; does she have to wear hijab all the time?

I want to ask about the woman who covers her face, if she marries a man who lives with his family and he has grown-up brothers, and he does not have enough money to buy a house or even a room, and she finds that she has no choice but to help his mother in the kitchen, for example, and her husband’s brothers come and go from the kitchen as they need to. 
Can she take off the khimaar and gloves from her face and hands in front of her husband’s brothers and keep them on in front of other people who are non-mahrams, even though the Messenger (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said of the in-law “The in-law is death” and warned against them more than other non-mahrams? Does that also apply to other relatives who are non-mahrams (such as the paternal uncle or sister’s husband)?.

Praise be to Allaah.

What a woman is obliged to do is to cover her hands and face in front of all non-mahram men, and avoid being alone with them, especially her relatives who are not mahrams, since because of their closeness fitnah (temptation) is likely to occur more rapidly than with others. It is more essential for her to cover in situations such as that which you asked about, where you live with your husband’s brothers in the same house. That is because mixing a great deal with non-mahrams weakens one’s modesty and makes one more likely to sin. If that is accompanied with uncovering the face and taking the matter of covering lightly, then it is more likely to lead to fitnah and sin. How many such incidents have occurred and families have been destroyed and family ties severed, because of carelessness in such situations. 

The scholars of the Standing Committee were asked: 

I am a man who is working and married, but due to my father’s health and financial situation we live in one house. Please note that I have two brothers, the youngest of whom is about 17 years old. What is your opinion on my wife and me staying with my father and brothers in one house? 

They replied: 

There is nothing wrong with your brothers living with you in one house, so long as your wife is modest in her dress and wears hijab, and is not alone with either of your brothers in the house. End quote. 

Fataawa al-Lajnah al-Daa’imah (19/366, 367). 

On our site there are a number of similar questions which you can refer to. See questions no. 6408, 13261, 40618, 47764 and 52814

And Allaah knows best.

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