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I was in a conversation with a follower of the Sufi way of Islam and that person asked me what I thought about praying at the graves, or about religious scholars interceding during the day of Judgment. I told that person that praying to someone’s grave is shirk and no one can intercede except the Prophet. What is the ruling of the people of knowledge on this matter and where can I look for proof?
Praise be to Allah.
Praying at graves is of two types:
“Worship Allah and join none with Him (in worship)” [al-Nisa 4:36]
“Verily, Allah forgives not (the sin of) setting up partners (in worship) with Him, but He forgives whom He wills, sins other than that, and whoever sets up partners in worship with Allah, has indeed strayed far away” [al-Nisa 4:116]
Example: if a person dies and you are not able to offer the funeral prayer for him in the mosque, then it is permissible for you to offer the prayer for him after he is buried.
The evidence for this is that this is what the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) did. It was narrated from Abu Hurayrah that a black man or a black woman used to clean the mosque, and he (or she) died. The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) asked about them and they said, “They died.” He said, “Why did you not tell me? Show me to their grave.” So he went to the grave and offered the funeral prayer. (Narrated by al-Bukhari, 458; Muslim, 956).
Example: a person dies and you are not able to offer the funeral prayer for him in the mosque, so you go to the graveyard and offer the prayer there before he is buried.
Shaykh ‘Abd al-Aziz ibn Baz (may Allah have mercy on him) said:
“It is permissible to offer the funeral prayer for the deceased inside the graveyard just as it is permissible to offer the funeral prayer for him after he is buried, because it was proven that a woman used to clean the mosque and she died. The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) asked about her and they said, ‘She died.’ He said, ‘Why did you not tell me? Show me to her grave.’ So they showed him and he offered the prayer for her, then he said, ‘These graves are filled with darkness for their occupants, but Allah illuminates them by my prayer over them.’” (Narrated by Muslim, 956) (From Fatawa al-Lajnah al-Daimah, 8/392)
The evidence for that is as follows:
Example: you pray with a graveyard or grave in the direction of your qiblah, but you are not praying in the graveyard, rather you are praying on some other ground that is close to the graveyard, with no wall or barrier between you and it.
The evidence for this being haram:
Note: If there is a wall between you and the graveyard, then the basic principle is that it is acceptable to pray in this case and it is not prohibited. Similarly, if there is a street or a considerable distance which would mean that you cannot be regarded as praying towards the graves, then this is acceptable. And Allah knows best.” (See al-Mughni, 1/403; al-Sharh al-Mumti’ by Ibn ‘Uthaymin, 2/232)
You were mistaken when you said that no one will intercede on the Day of Resurrection except the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him). Rather the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) will intercede and so will others among the believers. Please see Question no. 11931 .
But we will add here an issue that was not mentioned there, which is that there are conditions attached to intercession :
The evidence for these two conditions is the verses in which Allah says (interpretation of the meaning):
“And there are many angels in the heavens, whose intercession will avail nothing except after Allah has given leave for whom He wills and is pleased with.” [al-Najm 53:26]
“and they cannot intercede except for him with whom He is pleased.” [al-Anbiya 21:28]
As for the imaginary intercession which the idol-worshippers think their gods perform for them, this is an invalid intercession, for Allah does not permit intercession unless He is pleased both with the intercessor and those for whom intercession is made. (See al-Qawl al-Mufid Sharh Kitab al-Tawhid by Shaykh Muhammad ibn ‘Uthaymin (may Allah have mercy on him), p. 336-337)
The fact that the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) and the believers will intercede does not justify asking them to intercede, as some people do when they ask the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) to intercede for them even after his death.
For more, please see these answers: 21394 , 7875 , and 36513 .
And Allah knows best.