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I heard from our Friday khutbah that a person will not be forgiven if he has bragged and boasted to his friends about his sin while Allah had hidden it, and he quoted a Hadith to support his claim. Is this true? I thought Allah forgives all sins! I am really in despair now.
Speaking about your sin and flaunting it openly in front of your friends is prohibited in Islam and is a major sin. Exposing sins in Islam is one of the ways of spreading immorality among the Muslims, encouraging evil and tempting others to do similar things.
Praise be to Allah.
With regard to the idea that Allah forgives all sins: this is correct, because Allah says (interpretation of the meaning):
{Say: “O My slaves! who have transgressed against themselves (by committing evil deeds and sins)! Despair not of the Mercy of Allah, verily, Allah forgives all sins. Truly, He is Oft-Forgiving, Most Merciful.} [Az-Zumar 39:53]
Minor sins are expiated for by doing acts of worship and by avoiding major sins, because of the following evidence:
{If you avoid the great sins which you are forbidden to do, We shall expiate from you your (small) sins, and admit you to a Noble Entrance (i.e. Paradise).} [An-Nisa’ 4:31]
There are many things that expiate for minor sins, such as fasting, Qiyam (optional night prayer), Wudu’, etc.
But major sins require specific acts of expiation, such as sincere repentance, the carrying out of the Islamic Hadd (a fixed prescribed punishment) on the one who committed them, etc., as can be seen in the following texts:
The phrase “he will be punished in this world” means, the Islamically-prescribed Hadd will be carried out on him.
But if a sinner dies in a state of sin, if his sins include Shirk, then Allah will not forgive him in the Hereafter. If his sins are less than that, then the person is subject to the will of Allah – if He wills, He will punish him and if He wills, He will forgive him.
Allah says (interpretation of the meaning): {Verily, Allah forgives not that partners should be set up with Him (in worship), but He forgives except that (anything else) to whom He wills} [An-Nisa’ 4:48, 116].
It was reported that Ibn `Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) said: I heard the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) say: “The believer will be brought close to his Lord until He conceals him and makes him confess his sin. Allah will say, ‘Do you remember such and such a sin?’ The man will say, ‘Yes, I admit it.’ The Lord will say, ‘I concealed it for you in the world and I forgive you for it today.’ Then He will close up his record of good deeds. As for the others or the disbelievers, it will be called out before the witnesses, ‘These are the ones who disbelieved in their Lord. The curse of Allah is upon the wrongdoers.’” (Narrated by Al-Bukhari, 4408 and Muslim, 2768).
Your despairing of the mercy of Allah is not permissible, because of the following evidence:
Openly sinning in Islam
Speaking about your sin and flaunting it openly in front of your friends is prohibited in Islam, and is a major sin. It is one of the ways of spreading immorality among the Muslims, encouraging evil and tempting others to do similar things. It also means that one does not take sin seriously and regards it as insignificant, and that the sinner is damaging his own reputation and exposing his honour to the slander of others. Islam seeks to put people off from doing such things in the strongest possible terms, as in the following Hadith:
Abu Hurayrah said: I heard the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) say: “All of my Ummah will be forgiven except those who sin openly. It is a part of sinning openly when a man does something at night, then the following morning when Allah has concealed his sin, he says, `O So and so, I did such and such last night,’ when all night his Lord has concealed him and the next morning he uncovers what Allah had concealed.” (Narrated by Al-Bukhari, 5721 and Muslim, 2990)
On this basis, we advise you to repent sincerely, and if you are tested with any kind of sin, do not speak openly of it or brag about it. You should be aware of the greatness of the One against Whom you are sinning, seek forgiveness for your sin, weep for the error of your ways and adhere strictly to the path of Allah. Beware of despairing of the mercy of Allah. If you adhere properly to the religion of Allah, you will have glad tidings of goodness in this world and in the Hereafter. We ask Allah to help us and you to do that which He loves and is pleased with. May Allah bless our Prophet Muhammad.
And Allah knows best.