Praise be to Allah.
It is not obligatory for the man to have intercourse with his wife on the wedding night. They may delay that until the time that they choose. But intercourse -- in general -- is obligatory. It is the right of both spouses. The wife must allow the husband to do that when he wants, so long as it is not harmful to her. The husband must have intercourse with his wife as much as suffices her , so long as it does not weaken him physically or distract him from earning a living.
For more, please see these answers: 1202 , 91968 , 4807 , and 6792 .
And Allah knows best.
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