Man has freedom of will through which he can choose whichever woman he wishes to marry, and that whatever choice he makes has already been decreed by Allah.

1. Quoting Al-Qadar as an excuse for committing sin or for not doing obligatory duties is a false excuse, according to Shari`ah, common sense and reality. 2. Al-Qadar may be invoked when calamities befall a person such as poverty and sickness, loss of a loved one, destruction of crops, loss of wealth, accidental killing, and so on. 3. Some of the scholars said that one of those who are justified in referring to Al-Qadar as an excuse is the one who repents from sin.

Qadar means that Allah has decreed everything that happens in the universe according to His prior knowledge and the dictates of His wisdom.

1- Belief in al-qada wal qadar means certain belief that everything that happens in this universe happens by the will and decree of Allah. 2- Belief in al-qada wal qadar is the sixth pillar of faith, and no one’s faith is complete without it. 3- Belief in al-qadar cannot be complete until you believe in these four aspects: 1- knowledge, 2 –writing, 3- will, 4- creation

In Islam, marriage is a part of the divine decree, yet Muslims must strive to make righteous decisions. While Allah knows who will be your spouse from eternity, your free will plays a role in the path taken to marriage. By upholding religious principles, making sound choices, and relying on the guidance of Allah, Muslims can hope to achieve a blessed and happy marriage in accordance with divine will.